All alone? Maybe this is how you feel right now, but let me tell you something. In all actuality, you are not alone! There are thousands of other people out there that are in the same boat that you are in right this very second. Unfortunately, what you do next will determine if you stay here in this boat, or you make the right choices and get back into that other boat and win back your true love.
I am not sure why you are alone, but I am going to assume that you and your true love just broke up. Maybe you are the one that decided that it was time for a change, but if you are reading this, I am guessing that you are the one who was dumped. So I need you to ask yourself one question. What are you going to do to win back your true love? Are you going to stay at home in your sweatpants slowly consuming gallon after gallon of Rocky Road ice cream, or are you going to get your act together and do what you need to do to get your ex back?
I am going to hope and pray that you have decided to go with option number two because no one wants to see a person that goes on and on for what seems like forever with option one. So let’s say that you are ready to get going with option number two. What are you going to do now? What you need to do is come up with a game plan. You need to set boundaries for yourself, you need to set goals for yourself, and you need to make sure that you follow these to a T. Here is my suggestion to get you going on option two:
1. Go out and take care of yourself for a day! Get your hair done, get a manicure and a pedicure. Get yourself a spa treatment. Whatever it is that really makes you feel good about yourself, DO IT! Not only will this make you happy, but it is going to rebuild your confidence.
2. Go out with your friends. Let another guy buy you a drink. Dance to all of your favorite songs. Moving around and dancing are going to release endorphins into your body. These endorphins are going to make you feel really good, which is also going to aid in rebuilding your confidence.
3. Do not call, text, email, or bother your ex. For the first few weeks, let him wonder how you are doing. Even if you are feeling like crap, he does not need to know this. If he calls you, do not blow him off. Simply tell him that you are happy to hear from him. Tell him that you are going to be busy for the next week or so, but that maybe sometime next week you two can get together for a cup of coffee or something. This is gong to make him think about you non stop for over a week.
What you are doing here is taking care of you first. If he sees that you are confident and you are going to make the best out of any situation, he is going to desire you more than if you lay around and stick to option one which I mentioned earlier. I hope nothing but the best for you, and I hope that you succeed in your quest to win back your true love.
I am not sure why you are alone, but I am going to assume that you and your true love just broke up. Maybe you are the one that decided that it was time for a change, but if you are reading this, I am guessing that you are the one who was dumped. So I need you to ask yourself one question. What are you going to do to win back your true love? Are you going to stay at home in your sweatpants slowly consuming gallon after gallon of Rocky Road ice cream, or are you going to get your act together and do what you need to do to get your ex back?
I am going to hope and pray that you have decided to go with option number two because no one wants to see a person that goes on and on for what seems like forever with option one. So let’s say that you are ready to get going with option number two. What are you going to do now? What you need to do is come up with a game plan. You need to set boundaries for yourself, you need to set goals for yourself, and you need to make sure that you follow these to a T. Here is my suggestion to get you going on option two:
1. Go out and take care of yourself for a day! Get your hair done, get a manicure and a pedicure. Get yourself a spa treatment. Whatever it is that really makes you feel good about yourself, DO IT! Not only will this make you happy, but it is going to rebuild your confidence.
2. Go out with your friends. Let another guy buy you a drink. Dance to all of your favorite songs. Moving around and dancing are going to release endorphins into your body. These endorphins are going to make you feel really good, which is also going to aid in rebuilding your confidence.
3. Do not call, text, email, or bother your ex. For the first few weeks, let him wonder how you are doing. Even if you are feeling like crap, he does not need to know this. If he calls you, do not blow him off. Simply tell him that you are happy to hear from him. Tell him that you are going to be busy for the next week or so, but that maybe sometime next week you two can get together for a cup of coffee or something. This is gong to make him think about you non stop for over a week.
What you are doing here is taking care of you first. If he sees that you are confident and you are going to make the best out of any situation, he is going to desire you more than if you lay around and stick to option one which I mentioned earlier. I hope nothing but the best for you, and I hope that you succeed in your quest to win back your true love.